Child & Adolescent Psychologist · İstanbul
Understanding what your child cannot yet say.
A child says "I'm fine", then stops sleeping, gets stomach aches before school and refuses to go. My work is translating that language. Play therapy and CBT with children and adolescents; Filial Therapy and counselling with parents, in İstanbul and online, in English or Turkish.
What I do
Therapy and counselling
No two children get the same method. It depends on their age, how they express themselves, and what they are actually struggling with.
Child & Adolescent Therapy
Individual therapy that works in the child's own language and keeps parents inside the process.
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Play Therapy
What conversation is to adult therapy, play is to child therapy.
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Filial Therapy
The therapist is not in the room. In Filial Therapy the child's play partner is the parent.
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CBT for Children
An evidence-based, goal-focused approach translated into a language children can use.
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Parent Counselling
Not for the child alone, for everyone living with the child.
Read moreAssessment
Intelligence, attention and cognitive assessment
MOXO Attention Test
Turning an attention complaint into a measurement rather than an impression.
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WISC-IV
Beyond a single IQ figure: a profile of how the child thinks across four domains.
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CAS Assessment
Not how much a child knows, but how the child processes information.
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Stanford-Binet
A wide measurement range, verbally and non-verbally, from preschool upward.
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Gifted Children
A high score is a starting point. The real question is how the child lives with that potential.
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Esra Gamgam Gökdemir
I graduated from Ankara Yıldırım Beyazıt University, Department of Psychology. I have worked with hundreds of children so far, assessing cognitive, emotional and academic needs and sitting down with their families.
A child does not come to the therapy room to be corrected. They come to be seen, to be understood, and to learn how to cope.
Let's talk for 15 minutes before you decide.
Starting therapy is a big decision. Let's meet first: tell me what is on your mind and I will tell you plainly whether ongoing work is needed and, if so, how we would proceed. You are not committing to anything.
- What we talk aboutWhat you have noticed at home, and what worries you.
- What you getA clear answer on whether ongoing work is needed.
- How long15 minutes, by phone or video, whichever suits you.
Talk
In the video: Kaygılı Annelerin Mükemmel Çocukları
A talk on how anxious parenting and perfectionism affect children, and how to make room for a child's own development.
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Appointment
A good day to talk it through.
You don't need to be sure. In a free 15-minute call, tell me what you have noticed and we will work out together whether ongoing work is needed.